Awe awe awe! (Pronounced "away away away")
I know I say this a TON but another great week has gone down
in the history of Elder Weiler and Elder Benissan! I made notes so hopefully
this email won't be so spastic.
We FINALLY got to watch conference!! Watching conference
here is very very different than watching conference in Utah! On saturday I was
on exchanges in an township called Osizweni; we watched conference in a school
classroom without air con. TIA. ( "This is Africa" -- my new
favourite acronym). But both days were amazing!! It is so interesting how every
year conference has its own personality! The biggest themes I noticed were
exercising and increasing faith, opening our hearts and changing into the
person that our loving Heavenly Father needs us to be, and the sacrament!
It was so impressed with the testimonies of the 3 new
apostles! I love the leaders of our church. Elder Bednar's talk was the perfect
end to conference. I must admit. I missed conference tweeting... So I may or
may not have taken 25 full pages of notes throughout this weekend... #LDSConf
I have also really enjoyed reading articles from the Liahona
in my free time; I read a talk from Elder Ballard that he gave at a devotional
a few years ago that I wanted to share some thoughts from:
The talk was titled 'Men and Women and Priesthood Power'
"Let us never forget that we are the sons and daughters
of God, equal in His sight with differing responsibilities and capabilities
assigned by Him and given access to His priesthood power."
"Just as a woman cannot conceive a child without a man,
so a man cannot fully exercise the power of the priesthood to establish an
eternal family without a woman... in the eternal perspective, both the procreative
power and the priesthood power are shared by husband and wife"
"While the authority of the priesthood is directed
through priesthood keys, and priesthood keys are held only by worthy men,
access to the power and blessings of the priesthood is available to all of
God's children."
This went hand in hand with the talk from Russell M. Nelson.
I am so thankful for the assignments of gender that the Lord provided to us. I
know that His plan is ultimate and perfect. That men and women have been given
divine roles in our world and that it is crucial that each of us magnify our
callings as men or women!
On Monday we got to watch Forever Strong for FHE! It was so
nice to watch one of my favorite movies! I think everybody loved it! It was
also perfect timing to watch a movie about rugby; the World Cup is happening
now and the Springboks have been killing it! Because the games have drawn so
much attention, work has become almost impossible for missionaries. So we have
been allowed to watch the past 2 games!! All of our zone went out and bought
springboks jerseys so that when we get together we are all in our fan gear!
It's been really fun.
If there is one thing I have learned about myself out here
in South Africa, it's that I LOVE rugby. I have always enjoyed watching and
playing football with friends.. But rugby is the best. We play a lot. We are
actually going to play a match after we finish emailing!
The springboks lost in the semifinal round against New
Zealand; our biggest rivals. As far as we care, that WAS the final. It was a
really good game! It was so unfortunate that we lost by only 2 points... But it
was way fun while it lasted!
It is rumoured here that when your missionary tag is crooked
that somebody is thinking about you. I have found my tag crooked quite a few
times this week!! Thanks Mom! hahahha
But more seroiusly, I am so grateful for all of the prayers.
I can literally FEEL it when somebody is praying for us here in the SADM. It is
a spiritual pick-me-up. I am so grateful for all of you that support me through
your prayers and through your faith. It is making a great difference in the
work here and in my personal welfare here!!
Elder Benissan and I have officially named our
companionship; I was reading in "Jesus the Christ" the other day and
learned that the apostles James and John were, not only brothers, but referred
to as "The Sons of Thunder" for their zeal in sharing the gospel! So
Elder Benissan and I have proclaimed ourselves the Sons of Thunder! (This is
also ironic because there have been ridiculous lightning storms all this week..
It's actually been a little terrifying... Just a little though.)
Tender mercies from the Lord are in great abundance! Every
night we meet up with our missionary district and share our tender mercies from
the day. It is so powerful! Fewer things will invite the sweet spirit of our
Heavenly Father than acknowledging and thanking Him for what He has done for
us! This works so well with us missionaries that Elder Benissan and I have
begun to do the same thing in almost all of our lessons! I would encourage each
of you to do the same, both personally, in a journal and in personal prayer,
and in families! It will bring you closer to your Father; and you WILL feel His
love for you.
Perhaps the greatest tender mercy we experienced this week
was breaking down some walls with a hostile father of an investigator who is
begging to be baptised. His name is Smanga, his mother and his sister are
members but his father wants them to be "'real' Zulu men". He thinks
religion is feminine and means that one is weak minded. He really hated us, and
didn't want us to enter his home anymore. It was causing a lot of contention in
their family that he was preventing his son(s) from pursuing something that was
important to them. However, we had a lunch appointment at their house yesterday
and Elder Benissan and I were really nervous about going; but Sister Mlambo
insisted. So as we went, the father was sitting in the lounge watching TV, as
usual. We greeted him and he told us we could wait on the couch for somebody to
come get us. We noticed he was watching soccer and started a conversation with
him. We found out he is a professional soccer coach! After about 10 minutes we
were having very natural and genuine conversation! After that he had no problem
with us staying for lunch. What a blessing!! That was the answer to many many
prayers and Elder Benissan and I hope to continue building a relationship of
trust with him!
A good lesson that I learned this week, that I think is
perfectly applicable to all of us, is to take personal inventory when we are
agitated or frustrated with others. Before we speak out of our frustrations I
would encourage you to ask yourself these questions:
"What have I done to contribute to this problem?"
"What can I do to improve this
situation?"
Then, prayerfully ask for help in doing ALL that you can do
to make amends with yourself before you point fingers and criticise. Your
problem will often be solved before it is communicated!
I have also began to realise that mission is not about me.
It is purely about the Lord and His children who stand in need of the message
of His gospel! As I have realised this missionary work has become a new idea to
me! It is also much easier to put in more and more work everyday! I am so
grateful for the opportunity each of us have to continually reflect and ponder
on our actions and our purpose here! We can always adjust our lives to more
strict accordance to the Lord's plan!!
My last realisation is that of the importance of members of
the church; both in missionary work (finding and teaching) and fellowshipping
(building relationships and helping investigators feel welcomed and wanted).
Members are as crucial to the conversion process as the missionaries are! So to
those of you who are members, PLEASE reach out to everybody; those in your
ward, even if you have known them for a long time, extend welcome and
invitation to visitors and new faces in the ward, it may be an investigator or
a less active member!! You will feel more fulfillment and happiness as you help
serve in the work of the Lord in bring more souls unto Him!!
My last thought is a simple phrase that I have come to fully
understand and appreciate on mission;
"Don't wait until your mission to be a
missionary."
Please ponder this phrase and pray to know what YOU can do
to help Heavenly Father spread His love and touch the hearts of His children.
I love you all so much! I love this work and I love this
gospel with all of my heart! I testify that living in accordance to the
standards and commandments placed by inspired leaders of the church will bring
greater joy than anything else! You can make a difference in the lives of
others through your example of faith, obedience, and kindness. SO DO SO.
Thank you all for your support and prayers. They do not go
unappreciated or unnoticed.
--
Elder Weiler
A few super candid and unplanned photos of Elder Benissan
deciding what to eat for lunch and cooking lunch. (It's the closest thing to a
snapchat story I can make right now) Again, these photos were not staged.
One of our investigators owns a ladies fitness centre and
Ephraim wanted to take a picture by it! hahah